Yesterday while talking to the dishwasher 大姐 at my workplace, I accidentally saw the wallpaper on her phone. It was a heartwarming picture of her hugging her grandson(?? She doesn’t even look that old srsly) and I was reminded of how everyone in this world that we meet is wearing multiple hats, and juggling their multiple roles. The girl you work beside is your colleague, yes, but she is also a daughter. The elderly uncle who cleans your dishes is also a colleague, and a son, PLUS a father. Everyone is walking their own road, writing their own story. This is why I’m trying to understand why some people choose to do things their particular way, so on and so forth. Life is hard, and we should do all we can to not make it even harder for someone else.